All Boobs are Good Boobs.

Boobs Sag! Some touch, some don’t! You don’t owe anyone perky, round boobs, you don’t owe anyone perfection. #BodyPositiveMonday

Reminder

Stretch Marks are normalCellulites are normalAcne is normalDiscolored inner thighs and underarms are normal. Stop giving people advice on what creams to use for their skin or what diets to follow without them asking, you are not being nice, it’s rude you are not helping… You are just big on giving unsolicited advice Always be […]

It’s okay to take a break.

The older we grow, the more we spend most of our time trying to make ends meet, that we neglect certain parts of ourselves which make us whole, especially our mental health. Taking time off to ourselves is a luxury we don’t have sometimes because we don’t the privilege of time or simply because we […]

Beauty Standards.

Society and the media have a favorite type of Girl, she has a glass hour shape, a “proportional” balance of bumm and boob, I mean she can be fat, but not too Fat but definitely has to have this shape, maybe a little Fupa but not too big. Truth is, We loudly say everyone is […]

Happy New Month, with Love ❤️

The beginning of a new month is the beginning of new opportunities and possibilities. I’m stepping into this new month with a renewed type of energy, a renewed type of self Love, A loud, active, intentional type of Love. A self Affirming Love. I am beautifulI am SmartI am WorthyI am Enough I hope this […]

Big Girl Talk.

The biggest Favour anyone can do for themselves is to free themselves from the shackles of insecurities for sexual liberation. Honestly, we don’t talk about this as much as we should. Sex should be explored but this can be very challenging if you are not totally comfortable in your own skin. There’s a level of […]

Concealed Fatphobia 😬

I’ve come across a lot of people who Conceal their Fatphobia which then has made it acceptable in society, to Fat shame unapologetically and because we are so receiving to it we’ve become enablers. Ever heard someone say “I don’t like Fat people, but I like you”? I think the worst that I’ve heard has […]

Let them Sag

#BodyImageMondays

Projection of insecurities

I strongly believe that projection of insecurities is a real thing, hear me out. We’ve often looked at body shaming from the angle of the receiver, but what if just this once we look at it from a different perspective. There’s always a back story, the bully at school is from an abusive family so […]

Reflections